big Instagram crash has happened my,friends in fact depending on when you,watch this it's still happening millions,of users have reported either losing a,crazy amount of followers people getting,locked out of their account and lots of,people also got a notification that,their account got banned wow all of that,happened within the past five to six,hours some were able to reinstate their,accounts already but there's still a lot,of issues Instagram's own account which,is the biggest Instagram account there,is lost about one and a half million,followers in the past few hours Ronaldo,Cristiano Ronaldo which I believe is the,second biggest one lost three million so,something saw and at this point we don't,really know what's going on but let's,just quickly take a look at the info,that we have right now and let me tell,you some let me just put it that way,Insider information if you will know in,the industry I don't know any Insider,Insider things but I know the industry,having worked there for the past years,whatever let's start with the good thing,yeah first of all it seems like it's,unintentional right some sort of of,mistake on Instagram's and and because,of that most accounts that are affected,right now will get reinstated the issues,will most likely be gone for 99 of you,guys out there not talking about the,Bots our old friend Missouri by the way,the head of Instagram has just said that,they're working on it without any,further clarification and their official,Instagram Communications team also,issued a very brief statement about,what's actually going on yeah somebody's,getting fired today now in my opinion,there's some multiple things that could,be the culprit coming sort of from,inside the industry first of all it's,almost November which are usually,historically means they are getting,ready for the purge meaning uh they're,doing their yearly bot follower of,Cleanup in my agency we've always had,issues with this,um yeah back when we're still doing sort,of more the gray hat approach quite a,lot of issues with that once we actually,lost all of our clients because of this,yearly Purge in November and I used to,call this I said the instapocalypse that,was something was a very valuable lesson,for me we started diversifying the,agency side of things mostly switching,to Consulting with big Brands and stuff,like this I can make a video if you guys,are interested but if we take a look at,this thing every year they sort of,update their filters on who will get,deleted whose bot follower what's the,threshold are there more filters and,stuff like this might be that this time,preparing for the annual perch somebody,messed something up considering lots of,people actually got a message that they,were banned for going against their,Community guidelines so it could be this,the interesting thing is though that um,and I don't have the data yet but it,could be that the accounts that actually,got affected have a low trust score,already right now and they're sort of,hovering right on the edge I don't,really think so but you never know um a,lot of accounts also got this message,something I've sort of leaked about a,year ago already I guess or something,like this but basically Instagram trying,to counter Bots even more and suspicious,activity even more by having people have,a selfie or selfie verify their profile,with some code this whole thing might,have been a hiccup trying to roll this,thing out in the near future we don't,really know now another indicator that,it's really kind of something to do with,their spam detection uh filters,misfiring if you will is that it seems,like right now the data that I have,mostly iPhone users are affected talking,about getting their account disabled let,me know in the comments if that is the,case for you are you affected right now,did you lose followers or did your,account get even banned and if so what,kind of message did you get and do you,have an iPhone would be really,interesting right now obviously we can,only speculate but I really just wanted,to get this video right now ASAP maybe,calm you guys down a little bit my inbox,has been exploding I was just in a car,driving two hours but yeah don't worry,about it they're actively working on it,even though they don't really tell us,what's going on might be they don't,really know what's going on right now,the only thing you can do is sit back,anyway and sort of watch the world burn,I kinda love it to be honest once I know,more about this obviously I'll let you,guys know and in the meantime why don't,you use this a time off if you will,effectively by learning how to come back,and start crushing it on Instagram in,this video I actually show you five,different accounts and what they did to,get to 10 000 followers pretty fast if,you ask me so
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Instagram DOESN'T NEED YOU Anymore... (Algorithm Updates Explained)
Instagram DOESN'T NEED YOU Anymore... (Algorithm Updates Explained)
i'm going to tell you a story that will,kind of change the way that you look at,social media specifically,instagram i think this is the end,of what we knew and we're entering a new,era of instagram and all social media,i believe that social media is headed in,a direction that there is no coming back,from and for multiple reasons this makes,it hard to grow on instagram this also,presents huge opportunities for people,but before we get to that let's go back,in time okay it all started a while ago,a few years after these first social,media companies kind of appeared when,these platforms were growing fast,monetizing fast and trying to find new,ways of keeping users on their websites,for longer you see at this time social,media was mostly people that you knew in,real life and there weren't many ways to,kind of reach people that you didn't,know in any real scale so these,platforms grew fast and you see with all,these new users there was a lot of kind,of boring strange posts popping up from,us normal people and these companies,needed to invent a way to filter out the,rubbish because it was kind of making,people leave and providing a bad,experience which was kind of,unacceptable for what had now become an,advertising platform so they came up,with a simple way of ranking posts based,on you know how many people reacted to,it this is what we now refer to as the,algorithm and this seems to be like,pretty simple harmless change in fact,pretty sensible change but by doing this,these platforms kind of led us down a,road that as i said there is no coming,back from they kind of opened pandora's,box,so the first stage of this radical,change and that's what affects you today,came in the form of the curated feed,this is where their robots kind of look,at all of the people that you are,following,and figure out the best content the kind,of stuff that they know will keep you on,the app for just a little bit longer and,when you open the app today those are,the things that you will see the first,posts that you see are not the most,recent as you may not know these are the,things that they have determined will,kind of give you a good welcoming into,the app to get you to stay for a little,bit longer this is the curated feed in,action,this all sounds simple enough but wait,if the goal here is to show you the best,content to entertain you as much as,possible to keep you in the app as long,as possible then it's pretty likely that,the best content the content is going to,achieve that goal exists,outside of the people that you chose to,follow,now a little while ago someone somewhere,figured this out and the curated feed,mutated slightly and manifested itself,as the for you page on tiktok you see,the crazy thing about tiktok is that you,don't need to follow anyone to have,basically the same experience as,everyone else you can download the app,create an account and in seconds there,is an actual endless amount of content,that very quickly figures out which,holds you for the longest and not what,makes you happy not what makes you,inspired but what holds you on the app,the longest and their data doesn't lie,it's no coincidence that tick tock is,known for being addictive they have you,figured out on a biological level now,don't get me wrong i'm not saying this,is necessarily a bad thing but i'm just,saying it's very very powerful but where,does that leave us with those instagram,followers and why it is so hard to grow,on the platform put very simply in order,for instagram to compete they need to,deliver a competitive experience and,tick tock changed the game they broke,the rules now instagram need people to,have as good a time on instagram as they,do on tiktok which means playing from,the same rule book now about those,instagram followers okay and why it is,so hard think about it this way okay in,order for you to gain followers people,need to want to follow and people used,to want to follow because there was,nothing else going on and more,importantly instagram needed you to,follow people to be entertained because,between those moments of entertainment,it would show you ads,so why is it so hard to grow on,instagram today,it's because instagram no longer,requires you,to follow people to show you ads and the,reverse of that is that it doesn't need,you to grow a following for it to serve,ads to other people it doesn't need you,anymore and i can prove it here is an,account with no followers and no,following and to be honest i wouldn't,notice it somehow serves me the same,kind of content that it does on my main,account now i don't mean to sound,negative that may have sounded,overdramatic and negative i wasn't,trying to be i was merely trying to,explain this very nuanced change that,has been happening over the last few,years which has affected the way,that people,use these platforms but there is an,opportunity here with all of this the,potential to randomly reach a very large,audience is much much higher because the,game isn't reaching your followers,a
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My Problem with Instagram and Why I Don't Use Tiktok
My Problem with Instagram and Why I Don't Use Tiktok
hello thanks for joining me today uh in this
youtube video that you found me in this layer ,or rather a random airbnb i've bounced around
to again uh today i just wanted to have ,a little sit-down chat i'm not making the hashtag
content all right i've not pre-packaged a nice ,little thing up to be like here you go click that
tasty and you're like british american reddit man ,what is this what is this instagram tiktok what
yeah i just wanna have a little like chat about ,some things i've been thinking about for quite
a long time but i haven't found the way to put ,it into words i've been on social media uh since
i've been a teen if you're younger than me that ,i'm assuming it's been you know more than just
that i feel like like i was one of those people ,that in middle school i prided myself being
the two percent that wasn't on my space i ,was like i don't need social media and now
look it's me it's my job kind of to an extent ,i do kind of understand now like the premise
that uh usually the generations above us are ,a bit more stubborn to change you know when
computers came out generations above us for ,the most part we're like oh i don't like this
i don't want to know how to use a computer ,you do it for me use the fox fire you know
what i'm talking about and you know i feel ,like when you're young you're very much in
a mindset of well i'm not gonna be like that ,but here i am getting mildly older and i've come
to the realization that i choose my battles now ,instead of having to always be everything
everywhere i don't want to be anymore and today ,the topic of conversation specifically let's start
off is instagram now i've been posting instagrams ,for a very long time since the app basically
started and a lot of people when they come up ,with complaints against it they'll say things like
oh well it used to be all about photography and ,now it's not and i disagree because it wasn't
ever about photography as much as it was just ,about posting photos of your life you know it was
about that word i hate lifestyle what does it mean ,but you know it was just about posting whatever
things you wanted like me thinking this was an ,acceptable dinner one of my first ever instagrams
you know i didn't know how to cook and i was ,really proud of this disgusting looking spaghetti
and cold sauce but as the years progressed and ,instagram was bought by a evil company facebook
slash meta they really just made so many decisions ,slowly but surely and in some points very quickly
that were the expense of us the consumer and us ,the creator for profits obviously for watch time
obviously and it's one of those things where ,it happens and everyone puts up a stink like oh
why have you removed the chronological feed i want ,to see the people i've followed and instagram
goes shut up we just want to make more money ,and not pay out anyone that's you know bringing
people to the platform and it's been like this for ,a long time and the way that it's mostly been is
you have to play the game and when i first started ,you know i've worked in a lot of different
social media fields it's not like i'm just ,a creator you know posting things online i used
to work in an influencer marketing agency i used ,to work in marketing for a specific app climbing
that corporate ladder i even also worked for an ad ,operations thing i'd put facebook ads on everybody
for different agencies and optimizing using my ,maths degree i said maths that's how you know i'm
serious but i i've seen it from all sides and i ,know how to play the game and win but at this
stage i just don't want to and i want to know ,if there's anyone else that kind of feels me on
this one like with instagram i understand that ,you know when they stole snapchat's ip i was upset
because i was like that shouldn't be legal right ,but you know at this point we're all using it
we're all using instagram stories we've accepted ,that and then when tick tock started being a thing
instagram was like okay we'll just try and do that ,and it's losing more and more of what i thought
instagram was and as i refuse to play that game ,to post more video content i just want to post
photos if you don't follow me on instagram that's ,not understandable i just post photography that
i'm really proud of and as i watch my engagement ,nose dive further and further and further on the
platform i ask myself why i'm doing what i'm doing ,especially if i know the easy solution and it's
just kind of because i don't want to at the end ,of the day i don't want to and i had this epiphany
the other day because i watch a guy on youtube his ,name's james hoffman he's the coffee guy i love
his videos he's a great guy and i was like i ,wonder what he's like on instagram you know and i
was like i want to see what he's up to over there ,just because i assume i can get to know a bit
more about him instead it's just more content ,t
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How To Fix Common Instagram Problems!
How To Fix Common Instagram Problems!
welcome back everyone i'll go ahead and,show you exactly how to,basically fix a lot of some common,problems that you may,have on your instagram accounts now i,typically do these videos on my second,channel but i figured i might as well,compile a lot of the most common issues,and put them into one video so this is,that one video,now i will tell you a lot of the times,you can go ahead and fix,most of these issues just by just by,updating your instagram app through the,app store with the google play store or,you know the app store and i'll get into,those in a second but i will leave,timestamps in the description,of exactly which specific issue you may,have and basically how to fix those so,the very first thing that i see a ton of,people run into,are basically action blocks now what,action blocks are,is if you go ahead and go through scroll,through your instagram account and,you're basically you know liking a bunch,of things and all these things,and you're dming and following a bunch,of people and you randomly get a pop-up,that says you know something like,you are not allowed to follow this,person anymore you're not allowed to do,this,you typically run into those problems,when you actually go and try to follow a,bunch of people at one time,so if you go and try to like a bunch of,people's photos basically,if you do a lot of spam type of you know,actions,then instagram may actually assume that,your specific account,is a bot account especially if it's a,brand new account,and instagram may ban you or may even,stop you from doing things and this is,what they call action blocks,so a way to fix this and really the only,way to fix this,is to temporarily stop following people,stop liking photos stop spam liking as,you can see,i liked a bunch of my own photos but,instagram doesn't assume i'm a bot,because you know i've been posting a,while i've you know had,basically non-bot activity for a very,long time but if i was posting,30 photos in one day and following a,thousand people and liking a bunch of,random stuff and,leaving 300 comments each second then,instagram is going to assume that i'm a,bot,and they're going to ban your account so,that's the first thing i would recommend,doing,the second thing obviously is logging,out of instagram and logging back in,typically those type of situations can,be fixed just by you know,not posting not following not doing,anything for a little bit and letting,your account rest,and then eventually coming back but if,that still doesn't work then logging out,instagram or deleting instagram coming,back into it,will probably end up fixing that issue,now if that doesn't end up working or if,that,ends up being a bigger issue than you,may even realize then obviously i,recommend you know contacting instagram,now the second thing that typically,people have problems with is basically,reactivating a deleted instagram account,this is what i'm gonna tell you,if you just deleted your instagram,account then luckily you'll probably be,able to access it,typically instagram allows you to have a,couple of days i think even like a,couple of weeks or within a month,to actually reactivate your account so,if you just want to reactivate and go,back into your instagram account,all you have to do is just download the,instagram app or go onto your computer,and just log into instagram and that's,really all you have to do,you don't have to go and contact them,you don't have to do anything crazy as,long as,i think in less than a month you can go,ahead and just log into instagram as,usual and restore your account back to,normal,now let's say it's been over a month,let's say it's been three years or,something you know,and you want to get back into it well at,that point you'll probably have to,contact instagram support,and i'll try to leave links in the,description to each thing i'm talking,about so you can just go and you know,get through that link and go on here but,that's probably what i would recommend,doing is to go ahead contact instagram,but typically you can go ahead and just,you know log back into instagram as you,normally would,the same username and password and that,should end up fixing the issues right,there,now let's go ahead and say that's not an,issue when you're done with that,the next issue that typically people,tend to have more times than not,is instagram photos not loading so as,you can see photos are loading for me,perfectly fine,now sometimes there are times where,instagram photos,just aren't loading and it seems like,it's just a you problem,but a great way to actually see if it's,just a you problem or if it's everyone,being affected,is to actually just search up instagram,on you know,google or search up instagram on twitter,or something and if you see a bunch of,people talking at one time saying oh,instagram is down instagram is down,or depending on how popular this video,is you can just even go to the comments,in this video sorted by new,and you should be able to see maybe a,lot of people commentin
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Watch This If Your Instagram Isn't Loading! (Fix Instagram Loading Issues)
Watch This If Your Instagram Isn't Loading! (Fix Instagram Loading Issues)
so you may be in a position where for,some reason your instagram feed is just,now loading up,now this can happen for 30 000 different,reasons but,most probably it's a network issue or it,may even be a instagram down issue,so i made this video like 50 000 times,first of all follow your boy you already,know there's the name there's the,account everything and what tends to,happen more times than not,is basically the back end of instagram,just isn't functioning properly and,there's an issue with instagram,and it's not really with your phone so,you can't really do anything you can't,restart your phone you can't do anything,you're just going to have to wait until,instagram fixes the issue now a,tremendous way to determine if it's,actually an instagram issue because,chances are probably is,but just in case you aren't sure you can,check the comments in this video and,sort by newest and if a ton of people at,like one time if there's like a bunch of,comments,and they're like only like seconds away,or set minutes ago then most probably,instagram is down for a majority of,people if they're,the last comment was like three days ago,or a week ago or a month ago,then most probably instagram is still up,and it's probably just a you issue or if,nobody watches this video you can always,go on twitter,and it's almost every single time,instagram is down it is trending on,twitter,so if you see instagram down or,instagram not up or whatever,then basically just wait until instagram,fixes it and,luckily it only takes like a couple,minutes i've never seen it down for more,than like 30,like 30 minutes to an hour so you can,just go on tick tock or snap channel so,it'll probably work so that's the very,first thing i'd recommend doing is,checking those out,now if instagram seems to still be up,for a lot of other people,and there's no comments that it's not,training on twitter nobody's talking,about it,then what you can do is pretty much make,sure you have a good reliable internet,connection if it still says couldn't,refresh couldn't refresh,basically going to your internet browser,loading up some web pages you can go to,apple.com you can go wherever,just load up some web pages if you're,able to load them up and they're you,know,loading up pretty fast then it may not,even be a network issue,and you can move on to the third thing,but if you're able to load up everything,if you're able to load up you know web,pages and,videos and snapchats and stuff like that,and still functioning properly then it,may not be,a network issue which is great you're,almost there,if you also know that instagram is not,fully down and you know that it's not a,network issue,then the third and probably final thing,i would recommend doing well there's a,fourth thing too but the third thing i,would recommend doing,is going into your app store and seeing,if instagram needs an update,so what you can do as you can see the,presidential debates tonight which is so,funny,is go into your app library right here,and you will usually see,instagram down here you can scroll,through and most the time you will see,an instagram app,so what you want to do is you want to,click on instagram or search up,instagram or whatever,and you want to click update so as you,can see i haven't updated instagram in a,while so i'll go ahead and click update,and you basically want to go through and,just wait until it's fully installed,and then you want to go to the back to,the app log in and whatever you need to,do,and most of the time at this point,instagram should be fixed and you can,click,you can click open it'll go and open the,app go through do whatever you need to,and like i said most probably the app,should be loaded,and it should be loading up your feed,just in case it isn't the final thing i,would recommend doing is restarting your,device,powering down just fully holding down,power off turn it back on whether you,have an android ios it doesn't matter,and then go back into instagram and see,if it's fully working at this point if,i'm being honest,it is probably working but just in case,it isn't you can always go on instagram,or your safari browser and pretty much,load it from there,so that's really pretty much it those,are a couple ways to go about fixing it,if you guys have any other questions or,anything,let me know in the comment section below,hit the like button on me so much but,definitely hit that subscribe button,every single subscriber that we get,really discount so me so much if you,guys can hit that,also check out the other links down in,the description as well my twitter my,instagram my main channel,more importantly everything else i love,every single one of you guys hopefully,i'll catch you guys,in the next video peace out till then,you
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What's Wrong with This Picture? - SNL
What's Wrong with This Picture? - SNL
>>> IT'S TIME TO PLAY "WHAT'S
WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE.",
HELLO, EVERYBODY, I'M YOUR HOST,ELLIOTT PANTS.
WELCOME TO ANOTHER ROUND OF,WHAT'S WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE.
THE RULES ARE SIMPLE.,ALL YOU GOT TO DO IS LOOK AT A
PICTURE, TELL ME WHAT'S WRONG,WITH IT.
IF YOU'RE RIGHT, YOU MIGHT WIN A,TOYOTA BEEF.
THE FIRST CAR FOR THICK BOYS.,CONTESTANTS, ARE YOU READY TO
PLAY?,GINA?
>> YES, DADDY.,>> I DON'T LIKE THAT.
STEVEN.,>> I DIDN'T COME HERE TO MAKE
FRIENDS, BUT I WOULD LIKE IT TO,HAPPEN.
>> OKAY.,LOUIS?
>> WHAT'S UP?,>> I'M INTRODUCING YOU.
>> OH, THANK YOU.,>> OKAY.
I GUESS THIS IS WHO IS AVAILABLE,AT 2:00 P.M. ON A WEEKDAY.
LET'S GO TO YOUR FIRST PUZZLE.,WHO CAN TELL ME WHAT'S WRONG
WITH THIS PICTURE?,THERE'S SOMETHING VERY WRONG
WITH THIS PICTURE.,CAN YOU SPOT IT?
>> OH, I GOT IT.,THEY'RE SIBLINGS WHO KNOW THEY
SHOULDN'T HAVE KISSED.,>> WHAT?
NO.,THAT'S NOT CLOSE.
>> OH, MAN.,>> LOUIS.
>> HER HAIR HAS TOO MANY SHRIMPS,IN IT.
>> I'M SORRY.,DID YOU SAY SHRIMP?
>> BY HER EARS ARE SHRIMP.,>> NO, THOSE ARE HER PIG TAILS.
YEAH.,THAT'S NOT SHRIMP.
GETTING A LITTLE WORRIED ABOUT,THIS.
GINA.,>> HE'S POINTING AT HER BUTT
DOOR AND EXPLAINING ITS,FEATURES.
>> NO.,SOMETHING IN THIS PICTURE IS
PHYSICALLY IMPOSSIBLE.,>> THEY'RE GAY.
>> WHAT?,>> BOYS AND GIRLS CAN'T BE GAY
ON EACH OTHER.,THAT DON'T WORK.
HAS TO BE THE SAME.,>> NO.
I'LL GIVE YOU A HINT.,SOMETHING IS MISSING IN THE
PICTURE.,LOUIS.
>> LOVE.,PLUS THE KNOCKERS BEHIND THEM
DON'T HAVE NIPPLES.,>> OKAY.
THAT'S A BUSH.,>> THAT'S INAPPROPRIATE.
>> CAN YOU REALLY NOT SEE IT?,THE SWING IS MISSING A ROPE.
>> THEN WHY ARE THEY SMILING?,>> BECAUSE HIS JEANS LEAVE VERY
LITTLE TO THE IMAGINATION AND,THEY LIKE THAT.
>> WELL, THAT MADE ME ANGRY.,ALL RIGHT.
HERE IS YOUR NEXT PICTURE.,GINA.
>> YEAH, I GOT IT.,SHE'S 4 YEARS OLD BUT THE
BOOBIES GREW TOO FAST.,>> OH, MY GOD, NO.
>> THE TWINS ARE IN THE FISH,TANK AND SHE CAN'T GET OUT.
>> THAT IS NOT A FISH TANK, THAT,IS A MIRROR.
>> THEN WHERE ARE ALL THE FISH?,>> I HATE YOU.
STEVEN.,>> OH, I SEE IT NOW.
THE ANSWER IS SHE JUST DID,BLACKFACE AND GOT AWAY WITH IT.
THE ONLY PROBLEM IS SHE GOT THE,JOB.
NOW WHAT?,>> NO.
NOW, STOP IT.,THE REFLECTION IS WEARING A
BELT.,IT'S WEARING A BELT.
ALL RIGHT, NEXT.,>> OH, I KNOW.
HER CHAIR IS EMPTY BECAUSE SHE,JUST GOT RAPTURED.
BUT ONCE SHE GOT UP THERE, GOD,DID A TWIRL AND HIS ROBE FLEW UP
AND SHE THINKS SHE SAW HIS,THING.
>> GROSS!,WRONG.
>> THE OBJECTS COME TO LIFE AT,NIGHT BUT THE ONLY PROBLEM IS
THEY'RE POOR.,>> FOR THE LOVE OF --
>> THAT COMPUTER HAS A VIRUS AND,I HATE TO TELL YOU BUT IT'S
AIDS.,>> UH, ARE YOU OKAY, MR. PANT?
>> NO.,AND IT'S PANTS.
LOOK AT THAT.,WHAT IS THAT?
>> A DATE TENT?,>> THAT IS NOT A TENT.
THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS JUNE,31st.
OKAY.,WE'RE DOING EXACTLY ONE MORE OF
THESE.,WHAT'S WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE?
>> OH, SHE'S WEARING,ROLLERBLADES INSTEAD OF ICE
SKATES.,>> OH, MY GOD, THAT'S RIGHT.
>> AND I THINK IT'S MY WIFE.,CAN I SAY HI?
>> THAT IS A DRAWING.,THIS HAS BEEN WHAT'S WRONG WITH
THIS PICTURE.,>> WHAT ARE YOU DOING?
>> WE GOT TO START SCREENING,THESE PEOPLE.
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There's No Victim Like A Narcissistic Victim
There's No Victim Like A Narcissistic Victim
being very entitled and controlling,narcissists have no difficulty stepping,all over your personal boundaries so,that's why I put together an extensive,video class called this is me it has 25,videos written documents guided,questions I'm going to teach you how to,have healthy boundaries there's a link,below and I hope you'll find it to be,quite therapeutic,let's begin today with a very basic,question and that is have you ever been,victimized now unless you've been hiding,under a rock yes at some point in your,life you've been on the receiving end of,abusive or manipulative or inappropriate,behavior in some primary relationships,and when we talk about having been,victimized we're talking about you,receiving unjust or unmerited or painful,or detrimental messages and actions from,another individual it just wasn't right,it wasn't appropriate but there it was,and you had to come to terms with the,Fallout that would come along with that,and along with your sense of,victimization you can say yeah I've been,on the receiving end of anger that's,been completely inappropriate I've I've,had to deal with individuals who have,dealt improperly let's say uh with money,management it could be that you've been,on the receiving end of insults whether,it's to your face or you learn about it,because it's behind your back maybe,you've been received you've been on the,receiving end of bullying or perhaps,social exclusion it could be that you,have certain unsafe and toxic people in,your world and just about any time,you're around them something difficult,may come along it could be that you've,been in the wrong place at the wrong,time in something very difficult,happened there are all sorts of,possibilities of how you might be,victimized now whenever you've been on,the receiving end of victimization it's,reasonable to say that you have emotion,you have some concerns on your part and,it's going to take some time to work it,out,now you'll notice though that there's,hardly a victim like a narcissistic,victim they too may have been on the,receiving end of unjust and,inappropriate behavior but with,narcissists they don't manage their,status as a victim in the same way that,healthy and normal individuals do if you,are a normal person and you've been on,the receiving end of victimization sure,enough you can hurt you can struggle you,can have struggles with your trust of,other individuals I mean all sorts of,emotional strain can come to you but at,some point you come to terms with it and,you figure out how you're going to move,forward despite the fact that negative,things have come in your direction and,whenever we're talking about the,narcissist it's like well first of all,they tend not to come to terms with,whatever difficulties have been in,thrown in their Direction but beyond,that there are also times when it's like,is what you're even talking about true,and have you really been victimized in,the way that you claim that you've been,victimized let me give you a real simple,illustration I recall talking with a,particular man,and he was talking to me like at home,his wife was yelling at him and he had,to put up with all of that with her,screaming so later I talked with the,wife and she was talking about oh yeah,he accuses me of yelling and I said well,give me an example of what we're talking,about and she told me about an episode,where she caught him telling some major,lies like big time and in the course of,the conversation she just stopped and,she just said in a loud tone what's,going on here,that's what he meant when he said she,yells at me so he made himself out to be,the victim when in fact she was,exasperated and she expressed some some,emotion that's not the same as being on,the receiving end of unjust kind of,behavior but that's how narcissists,operate let's keep in mind that these,are individuals who are Master,manipulators they have to stay on the,high end of the relationship in other,words they need to be superior they've,got to be in control they don't have,empathy they have a self a,self-indulging and entitled attitude in,the way that they engage with the world,so if something is going on in a,narcissist world and they don't like,what's happening they turn themselves,into the victim and they wear it uh and,like a like a shield and they try to,milk it for all that it's worth,when a narcissist says that they've been,victimized what they're basically,prone to saying is or if they could be,honest like this something that I don't,like hasn't happened,let me see if I can figure out how I can,use this to my advantage and so they,they like to dominate and so if,narcissists can can assign shame to the,other individual and and try to make,that other person out to be the the,guilty party it's like I'm willing to do,that or if narcissists want to deflect,attention away from their misgivings or,their mistakes by putting it on to,someone else you did it to me,I'm willing to do that I I think I can,work with this if they if they notice,that
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LANGUAGE OF POWER Dinesh D’Souza Podcast EP491
LANGUAGE OF POWER Dinesh D’Souza Podcast EP491
this episode is brought to you by my,friend Rebecca Walser a financial expert,who can help you protect your wealth,book your free call with her team by,going to friendofdanesh.com that's,friendofdanesh.com coming up I want to,talk about the aftermath of the Kevin,McCarthy speaker vote I want to show,that this was actually uh an effective,exercise of the use of Power by Matt,Gates Lauren bobert and others,Biden finally visits the Border but,guess what it's not the actual border,that the ordinary citizens at the border,are living with I'll examine the,penetration of woke ideology into,America's Premier business school,Wharton and zavornstein the director of,international Affairs of the city of,David Foundation is going to join us,from Israel to talk about archaeological,findings in Jerusalem that confirmed the,Hebrew and Christian scriptures this is,the Nash de Souza show,America needs this voice the times are,crazy in a time of confusion Division,and lies we need a brave voice of recent,understanding and Truth this is the,Dinesh D'Souza podcast,all right so Kevin McCarthy finally made,it he is house Speaker I guess he's now,legitimately in the speaker's office,that he moved into before he actually,had that position and,um the question is how is this all,turned out I think it's an interesting,exercise uh to do a little bit of a,postmortem on an exercise in the,language of power now,there are some people who uh as soon as,Kevin McCarthy got the votes threw up,their hands and basically said that's it,a swamp creature is now in place uh,running the Republican house my gosh we,have McConnell in the Senate we have,Ronald McDonald still in the uh heading,the RNC this is very bad news uh we the,Republican base are not even really,represented by these people so this is,an unmitigated disaster I want to argue,that this is not in fact the case now,for a while there you had these 20,holdouts uh led by,um well there was uh Bob Perry,um Mary Miller who's been on the podcast,of course Matt Gates uh Lauren bobert,and the Phalanx of 20 were almost like,the Spartans at the past they were,holding out they were holding firm they,were sort of bent,um down with their Shields above their,heads and they seemed immovable uh vote,after vote after vote I think for 10,straight votes or so McCarthy didn't,seem to be making any progress at all uh,but and then you had something very,interesting which is it looked like it,looked like a McCarthy really upped the,concessions that he was making to this,group in other words both the,substantive concessions things like I'm,gonna have this investigation and a,covet investigation the origins of kovid,and I'm going to do a um investigation,of the Border policies,um and I'm going to defund the 87 000,IRS agents and also procedural,concessions I'll give in on rules I'll,give it on the number of um house,members who are needed in order to call,a kind of vote of no confidence or a,vote for a support or non-support of the,speaker so McCarthy was basically giving,away the store left and right,um and in a sense weakening his own,future uh house speakership,now all of this I think is what caused,the,um the the gang of 20 if you will to,finally Bend and finally relent a couple,of people were still hold outs and there,were a few people who ended up voting,present but even by voting present they,were facilitating in the end the,McCarthy uh speakership,now again it seems on the face of it,that this is a a loss because it seems,like wow the holdouts kind of threw in,the towel they conceded and let's,remember that the 20 holdouts you had a,kind of an irony here which is the,holdout these 20 guys in a sense more,accurately represented the values and,the convictions of the base of the,Republican voters then the 200 or so,Republicans who were committed to,McCarthy for the 200 or so Republicans,it was mainly transactional many of,those guys I mean they're probably a few,maybe Dan Crenshaw who really like,McCarthy who think he's amazing but the,vast majority of Republicans are like,and we know a few we've spoken to,personally and they want to be on,certain committees hey I want to be on,this committee I want to be on ways and,means I want to be unjudiciary and so,they don't want to antagonize McCarthy,because they want McCarthy to give them,Plum appointments so a lot of it was,driven by that but look let's look at,the deal that emerged at the end I mean,if you listen to Kevin McCarthy now he,almost seems like a different person,than he was before this vote and I also,noticed that his tone is very chastened,in the sense that he's not taking the,view that Hey listen I'm going to teach,the uh Rebels a lesson,um I mean obviously there's probably,going to be some private resentment at,the fact that they held things up for so,long they did such effective blocking of,his speakership but on the other hand I,think he understands that in order to be,effective as Speaker he actually needs,the overwhelming number of Republican,
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